A renewed tenderness for the man you married
Rediscover the heart behind his actions and reconnect with the man you love.
HIM
A quiet unraveling. A bridge. A beckoning. A new way to understand the man you married.
Begin the Journey
The Backstory
There was a point in my marriage where everything felt still. We were sharing days without the deep, meaningful connection I longed for.
I missed that spark not just romance, but the genuine closeness of understanding my husband's dreams, fears, and insecurities. I wanted to connect with him at a level that let me understand him deeply, to know how to pray for him and to build a relationship that felt truly alive.
In my search for answers, I sensed God inviting me to start by paying attention to what he often mentioned and what I had brushed off before.
I began to see how much he valued steady communication and how our connection suffered when I was either too silent or too intense. Money, tone and timing affected his trust and our intimacy. I needed to change, learn and rebuild trust.
A thriving marriage isn’t about keeping up appearances; it’s about understanding each other’s hearts and nurturing the connection that sustains love.
ContinueThis isn’t about making him better
It’s about becoming the kind of woman who knows how to reach him.
This isn’t just marriage advice. It’s the beginning of a new way to love. You’ve prayed, waited, and tried to hold it all together. Somewhere in the giving and surviving, you began to lose your softness.
You don’t need more rules or lectures. You need a wiser rhythm, a kinder lens, and a way to connect that honors both of you.
HIM is that rhythm.
- Raise awareness, not your voice.
- Become your best self inside marriage.
- Invite connection without control and manipulation.
What’s waiting for you in HIM
Spirit-led insight into how men process emotions
Understand the ways he handles stress, responsibility, and connection.
A steady, loving way to invite connection
Foster intimacy without manipulation, creating space for honesty.
Stronger respect, softer tone, deeper partnership
Develop communication that builds trust and true teamwork.
A whole marriage is built in the small, sacred ways we choose to see and serve each other.
Take a peek inside
COMMUNICATION
A marriage rises - or rests - on our words and tone.
ACCEPT HIM
ENGAGE HIM
TACKLING DIFFERENCES
EMPOWER HIM
INTIMACY
Closeness is woven through everything.
THE INTIMACY VOYAGE
SPIRITUAL INTIMACY
EMOTIONAL & INTELLECTUAL
PHYSICAL INTIMACY
MONEY
Provision is stewardship and partnership.
GOD, MONEY & THE HOMEMAKER
MAXIMIZING HIS INCOME
AUGMENTING FAMILY INCOME
WEALTH BUILDING MASTERY
Behind the Door…
Each lesson is delivered with soul and structure so you can learn while folding clothes, driving, or simply sitting still.
These aren’t lectures. They’re lifelines, designed to soften your heart, sharpen your vision, and strengthen your bond.
No perfection. No pressure. Just space to grow, one gentle session at a time.
Video Lessons
Audio Guides
Reflection Workbooks
Guided Journaling
HIM isn’t about making your husband better. It’s about becoming the woman who reaches his heart.
I’m Ready To Meet HIMChoose Your Pour
All of our Core Programs can be enjoyed three cozy ways. The content is the same, it's how you like it served that makes the difference. Pick the pour that fits your current season best.
Solo Soak
UGX 500,000
This is for the woman who wants to walk slow and steady. No pressure. No performance. Just a soft space to grow.
- Lessons steeped in warmth. Just long enough to sip your tea, settle in, and let the truth sink deep.
- Spirit-led assignments after each one (because we don’t just learn, we live it)
- Yours to take at your own pace. Pick up where you left off. Rewind when needed.
- Submit your questions anytime, straight through the platform. I’ll respond with love and clarity.
- One-year access to revisit anytime the world gets noisy again.
No calls, no rush. Just you and the Shepherd, one page at a time.
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The Guided Pour
UGX 700,000
This is for the woman who wants a bit more support, a gentle hand to hold and a voice to say, “You’re doing just fine.”
- Everything in the Solo Soak
- Submit 3 assignments for personal feedback (because sometimes you just want to know “am I getting this right?”)
- Priority question box (your questions get answered first.)
- One-year access, of course. Because life isn’t a race.
You don’t need to walk alone. Let’s pour a little deeper, together.
The Private Pour
UGX 1,000,000
This one’s for the woman who wants more presence, more conversation, more real-time guidance.
- Everything in the Guided Pour
- Submit 5 assignments for thoughtful feedback (hand to heart, I’ll go through them myself)
- Early bird access to offers and products before anyone else hears about them
- And a few extra surprises tucked in along the way (because I like to spoil the women I walk with)
A little more time. A little more access. A little more Helga.
What Women Are Saying
I learned to see his quietness not as rejection but as processing. Our connection has deepened.
The money module shifted how I support his provision. Peace returned to our home.
The Guided Pour made me feel seen. I speak in ways he can hear and he feels valued.
I learned to honor him in ways that speak to his heart. Tenderness returned.
This is the way back to tenderness
To teamwork. To him. To the marriage you’ve hoped for.
- 12 audio or video sessions to fit your rhythm
- Guided PDFs to reflect, journal, and go deeper
- Soulful assignments that invite, not overwhelm
- A full year of access to grow at your pace